I don't blame him for any of that. I can just see it for what it is and be frustrated as hell with him for it. [No one likes watching someone make their own mistakes.]

And I understand everyone copes differently. His is just... he shouldn't be doing that. It can just get worse and... [John tuts. There's honest frustration in his tone. Some of it is directed at himself, though. He knows he probably shouldn't be getting this riled or invested.]